Richard's & Sylvia's
17th Anniversary

Gene Stickey's World
Wedding Memories
On the occasion of Richard & Sylvia's 17th Anniversary

August 27, 2005

Richard & Sylvia celebrated their 17th wedding anniversary. The occasion caused Jeanne and I to pull out the wedding pictures. And since R & S are so physically removed from much of the family it seemed a good idea to give readers some background and some selected photos.

About Richard & Sylvia

For readers who are not familiar with Richard & Sylvia Troxell, Sylvia is the second child and the only daughter of Gene (me) & Jeanne Stickley. Some of you may know her brothers George or Gene, Jr. a little better. Colleen, who is represented on this site in her own right Colleen's Page, is their daughter.

Sylvia & Richard live in Austin, Texas and they have been there quite a while. Colleen, had never really seen serious snow until about a year or two ago, so balmy is central Texas. However, these transplanted Texans met in Philadelphia.

Sylvia's Work

Sylvia had enrolled at Philadelphia's La Salle University where she had discovered a widely respect program in Special Education. Her foundation must have been solid because she has been in this field for some twenty years. Two years back she was recognized as teacher of the year in her school district.

Sylvia began working with handicapped children as early as Junior High. She volunteered at a summer camp for handicapped children in the Cincinnati area (our home at the time). She continued this work for 3 or 4 summers.

Her work involved handling the children, some of them fairly large, in and out of chairs and the swimming pool and similar work. Fortunately Sylvia has a constitution much like her grandmother, Helen (Murphy) Stickley, and her great grandfather, John Murphy.

Her first Special Ed assignment was in a difficult disciplinary environment. She worked with children from Philadelphia's court system, children who were "wards of the court." Generally they came from the worst kind of family and home life situations. Some of these children were sizeable teenagers. But Sylvia She didn't seem particularly anxious and came through unscathed.

This work seems to require a lot of flexibility for handling a variety of people and situations. In all cases it requires dedication and a lot of sensitivity along with some toughness. Obviously Sylvia has the qualifications.

Richard's Work

Richard is an advocate for the homeless and the poor. He had been a staff member of the Legal Aid Society in Philadelpha. Shortly after his marriage he was offered an opportunity with more responsibility in Austin. It has worked out well. Sylvia had no difficulty in securing a Special Ed position and her relocation has also worked out quite well.

Richard has received a number of local, national and international awards in recognition of his work with the homeless and poor. These awards include--

1987
United Nations International Year of Shelter for the Homeless--Special Recognition

1988
La Salle University--Certificate of Merit for Outstanding Community Contributions
Pennsylvania Senate Citizenship Award

1989
Penn Area Neighborhood Association Certificate of Appreciation for Outstanding Service

1991
City of Austin, TX, Mayor Lee Cook: Distinguished Service Award
State of Texas, Governor Ann Richards: Certificate of Recognition for proposals developed to aid Austin's homeless population

1995--present
American Institute for Public Service: Five Who Care Award--National Jefferson Community Service Award
Austin Area Homeless Coalition: Certificate of Appreciation for Outstanding Community Service
J. C. Penny Corporation: Golden Rule Award
National Coalition for the Homeless: Beverly Bell Award
United Way Community Collaboration Award
Austin Chamber of Commerce: Community Legacy Award
City of Austin, Human Rights Commission: Recognition and Award

Although Richard works with the homeless all day in his spare time he has created a national program aimed at establishing a Universal Living Wage in America. This is a concept similar to the minimum wage but with the local wage tied to the HUD formula for calculating local housing cost.

The program has an informational website Universal Living Wage campign.

For a picture story of the wedding in 1988 click here

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